Start Where You Are – Successful People Series Part 3

“Because your own strength is unequal to the task, do not assume that it is beyond the powers of man; but if anything is within the powers and province of man, believe that it is within your own compass also.”
-         Marcus Aurelius

If there were only one common thread between the billions of auspicious people in the world, this would be it. Starting where you are is crucial because more often than not people try to start from where they were or where they’d like to be, which is akin to starting from a place that doesn’t exist. It’s not uncommon for people to view their current situation, despite all that they may have going for them, as the epitome of despair, and because of this they never move beyond their starting point.

TRULY WHACK!

There aren’t too many things on this Earth that are worse than wasted talent, and successful people are masters at avoiding this by the simple fact that acknowledge where they are and take one step after another in the direction that they want to go.

Its Your Fault

Hopefully that isn’t too shocking of a statement, but if it is then good – maybe that’s just what you needed to hear to get the ball rolling. I was at a seminar in Toronto, and while having lunch with John Berardi and some of his colleagues, I heard him say something that had pretty profound impact on my thinking from that point on – “If I’m giving a talk and my audience doesn’t understand what I’m talking about its not their fault – I just haven’t done a good enough job of explaining it.” By taking away the option of blaming his audience and using them as an excuse for not getting his point across, John highlighted an important point – excuses are debilitating, and successful people take no stock in them.

We would all do well to remember this point. Extenuating circumstances aside, the successes and failures that you experience in life are entirely your fault. Are you fatter than you’d like to be? You ate too much and moved too little. Are you making as much money as you’d like to? Are you living the kind of life that you want? You get the picture. It is only when we stop blaming everyone else for our lack or results in any area of life that we can begin to move forward.

Friday Night Freestyle Volume 6

Lets talk about Cannibalism.

I recently came heard about a book that piqued my interest, especially around this time of year, called Dinner With A Cannibal: The Complete History of Mankind’s Oldest Taboo. In the book Carol Travis–Henikoff goes into a detailed history of cannibalism,  covering the variety of tribes that still perform this ritual today – and the belief system that surrounds it.

Let me drop some pre-reading knowledge on ya:

Survival cannibalism. This well-documented variant involves consumption of human flesh in emergency situations such as starvation. Some of the most famous cases are the 1846 Donner Party in the Sierra Nevada and the South American athletes stranded in the Andes in 1972, whose plight later became the subject of the film Alive (1993).

Endocannibalism. Endocannibalism is the consumption of human flesh from a member of one’s own social group. The rationale for such behavior is usually that in consuming parts of the body, the person ingests the characteristics of the deceased; or through consumption there is a regeneration of life after death.

Exocannibalism. Exocannibalism is the consumption of flesh outside one’s close social group—for example, eating one’s enemy. It is usually associated with the perpetration of ultimate violence or again as a means of imbibing valued qualities of the victim. Reports of this practice suggest a high incidence of exocannibalism with headhunting and the display of skulls as war trophies. The majority of the controversies about the practice of cannibalism refer to endocannibalism and/or exocannibalism.

Here is another topic of grossness for your mind – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autophagy_(feeding)
And to finish this post off, I’d like to share with you the trailer of one of my favorite horror movies of all time – Nightmare on Elm Street 4.

Have a safe Halloweenie everyone!

Time Management – Successful People Series Part 2

Sexification Note: This post can be found here. I wanted to re-run this post because I read it again this past weekend when I was knee deep in planning and goal setting and this piece was very helpful in helping me not feel overwhelmed. – 11/1/2010

Friday Night Freestyle Volume 5

First off, I’d like to apologize to all 2 or 3 of my readers for not having any content up lately.  I just let life get in the way, and in my quest to try and make 3 meaty posts a week, I ended up making none. So, I will be starting fresh next week, promising a new meaty post every Monday and then we will see where things go from there.

With that out of the way, lets get back to serious business – Armadillos.

I’m not into sports all that much, so this is the kind of thing that gets me pumped up. You can find more awesome vidoes like this one at the Museum of Animal Perspectives.

Friday Night Freestyle Volume 4

I like money because it helps me buy things, so the more of it I have, the better. I’m assuming that you too also like money. If this is the case, then I urge you not to spend your money seeing this movie:

The only thing that prevented me from committing seppuku in the middle of the theater was the conversations and comments that everyone else was having during the movie. By watching the above trailer, you’ve pretty much just seen the movie for free. However, if you are some kin to Scrouge McDuck and money is no concern to you, then by all means grab a bunch of friends and go see this comedy of a horror movie – just don’t expected to be scared…unless doors slamming loudly sends you into panic mode.

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